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Thursday, January 14, 2010

Legalise prostitution if you can't curb it: SC to Centre


New Delhi In a significant remark, the Supreme Court asked the Centre whether it can legalise prostitution if it is not practically possible to curb the world's oldest profession with punitive measures.


"When you say it is the world's oldest profession and when you are not able to curb it by laws, why don't you legalise it? You can then monitor the trade, rehabilitate and provide of medical aid to those involved in the trade," a bench of Justices Dalveer Bhandari and A K Patnaik told Solicitor General Gopal Subramaniam.
The apex court said legalising sex trade would be a better option to avoid trafficking of women and said nowhere in the world has the trade been curbed by punitive measures.
"They (sex trade) have been operating in one way or the other and nowhere in the world have they been able to curb it by legislation. In some cases, they are carried out in a sophisticated manner. So why don't you legalise it?" the apex court said, to which the Solicitor General said he would look into it.
The apex court's remarks came while dealing with a PIL filed by an NGO Bachpan Bachao Andolan and the intervention application moved by Childline complaining about large scale child trafficking in the country.

source - expressindia.com

No internet sex please, we're Indian. Web firms observe new law

It may have given the world the Kama Sutra and the Bollywood wet sari scene, but it appears that India is not yet ready to be exposed to the delicate subject of sex on the internet.

A Guardian investigation has discovered that several internet companies have quietly introduced filters to prevent Indian users from accessing sexual content.

The Yahoo search engine and Flickr photo-sharing site (owned by Yahoo) altered their sites earlier this month to prevent users in India from switching off the safe-search facility. The block also applies to users in Singapore, Hong Kong and Korea.

Microsoft has also barred Indian users of its Bing search engine from searching for sexual content. Users who do try to search for sexual material receive a notice informing them that "your country or region requires a strict Bing SafeSearch setting, which filters out results that might return adult content".

The clampdown is understood to be in response to recent changes to India's Information Technology Act of 2000, which bans the publication of pornographic material.

That law, which is based on a 150-year-old statute (section 292 of the Indian penal code), defines obscenity as "any content that is lascivious and that will appeal to prurient interest or the effect of which is to tend to deprave or corrupt the minds of those who are likely to see, read or hear the same".

In October, the scope of the 2000 act was dramatically widened to enable action to be taken against a wide range of providers, from internet search engines and internet service providers to cyber-cafes. Under the new law, they are obliged to exercise due diligence and disable access to any content which contravenes the act. Failure to do so carries a three-year jail sentence and a fine of up to 500,000 rupees (£6,690).

Search engine reports suggest that users in India are responsible for more searches for "sex" than those in any other country. Its popular daily newspapers are packed with pictures of young women in states of undress and Bollywood oozes sexuality from every pore.

But at the same time it remains a deeply religious country in which traditionalists regularly take violent offence at anything deemed to be too suggestive.

The latest attempts to constrain internet users come at a time when the vexed subject of sexual behaviour is once again dominating the domestic headlines.

Last week an Indian news channel broadcast video footage of a man said to be the 86-year-old governor of Andhra Pradesh, Narayan Datt Tiwari, in bed with three young women. He quit on Sunday, citing health reasons and still denying that the man in the video was him.

Today there was also mixed news for the tens of thousands of fans of India's most popular – and only – cartoon porn star, Savita Bhabhi.

The sexual antics of the energetic housewife won her website a daily audience of nearly 200,000 visitors, until it was closed down by the Indian government in June.

Now the site is back at a new web address but already it has fallen foul of the Internet Service Providers Association of India, whose president, Rajesh Chharia, warned that it faced closure again because its content was "not acceptable to our culture".

No one from Yahoo was available for comment today but a posting on the Flickr website explained that "Flickr is a global community made up of many different kinds of people.

"What's OK in your backyard may not be OK in theirs. Each one of us bears the responsibility of categorising our own content within this landscape. So, we've introduced some filters to help everyone try to get along.

"If your Yahoo! ID is based in Singapore, Hong Kong, India or Korea you will only be able to view safe content based on your local terms of service (this means you won't be able to turn SafeSearch off)."

source - http://www.guardian.co.uk

Thursday, July 30, 2009

C-grade movie actresses now on small screen


Now you can watch C-grade C grade movie’s sultry actress showing on your home screen.
Now Negar Khan had joined as one of the contestant on new reality show Iss Jungle Se Mujhe Bachao.
Some days back Shweta Tiwari and other girl were providing bathing scene on your screen and now recently Negar Khan took bath in bikini and started exposing scenes which used to be available on 3rd grade cinema.

It’s very good news for all as all such stuff now easily available for our kids at home only. Soon we should be able to watch XX and XXX scenes on our screen along with our family.





Many such snaps are available on internet of her, just to respect viewer I have edited to hide some area in the picture
A pornographic action by her

Saturday, July 18, 2009

Sach ka samana – A New concept of reality TV show


Recently I watched few episodes of new TV show Sach ka samana. It looks very new reality TV show concept in India. Here participant has to give true answer of every question, which is very personal. To know truthfulness of the answer polygraph machine is used. Here I am not going to discuss detail and rule of this show as I assume most of us have watched its episode. No doubt concept is new and good but here I have some confusion. I watched very first episode of this show where a married female was participant I really don’t remember her name but what I can collect she was around few years married with two kids having complete family life. I was observing the question she was being asked and very surprised as she was accepting the painful truth for most of the question. She had almost won Rs 5 lacs after giving around 11 truths, she was continuing and questions were getting more & more personal. But I realized most of the questions were based on personal feeling and thinking, which I felt is not fair. Like female was asked question like

* Do you feel that someone else looks better than your husband?

* Do you feel your mother loves your brother more than you?

* Did you ever felt to kill your husband?

If you ask me, I feel that they are just pathetic questions and originally have no specific or correct answer. As feeling or thinking is unintentional process in human brain and most of the time is not logical, even has no value/effect. If you try to compare following two questions you might understand what I am trying to say.

1. If you ask a person Other than your wife did you ever had sex with some girl?

2. Other than your wife did you ever feel to have sex with some girl?

If you see here first question is very much relevant and person answering will be very much clear as what is the truth, while second question is very confusing for any one as no-one even remembers that what he felt just 5 minutes before and if he felt something as such what was the intensity of such feeling, if intensity is very low than really such feeling doesn’t have any value and impact on individual’s character, moral or personality. What I understand from this show, they ask most of the time question based on feeling or thinking and try to confuse the person as no body can actually proof what he felt or not. I was shocked when this female was asked the question as other than your husband did you felt about other man, first it needs to be clearly defined if someone felt then actually on what extends. Even it is possible with most of us when we watch some beautiful actress in movie doing some bold scene and for a second it comes in mind WOW, a feeling for moment and it goes, then if it has to be blamed as I felt for that girl, I don’t think this is fare at all.

If this show really has to succeed, I think they will have to go towards event based questions, which have clear answers and what people actually want to know.

Source - deepak.thaper@gmail.com

Monday, June 15, 2009

A successfull bollywood actor rapped his maid

Yesterday I got the news from various TV news channel that Shiny Ahuja, who is a very successfull bollywood acter was arrested by Mumbai police in case of raping his maid. Shiny Ahuja is married to a beautiful wife and has a daughter as well. When I got the news I couldn't believe it and thought it may be some publicity stunt or may be false balme by her maid. But today news came as Shiny has accepted his crime.
Shiny with wife Anu

The maid was working at shiny place for last 1 and 1/2 month and that day shiny's wife and daughter were out of town and he was alone at home with maid, when forcefully he had sex with her maid.
This looks really pathetic. How a person on such a successful position and having great family life can take such steps, which eventually can his spoil his whole carrier, family life and can put his self and his family in such a shapefull and ambarrising position.
I think, in the industry he working and in the city he is leaving in there are many girls, who can wishfully build a sexual relationship with him just for fun & satisfaction and even not that he can also spend few thousands rupees and can buy sex and beauty of his own choice to fullfill his physical need. Then why such a foolish step.
I will try to keep exploring answer of this question and will keep updating on the same

Sunday, April 19, 2009

An american girl was gang rapped by six boys

The news came on 17th Apr 2009 that a 23-year old student of Tata Institute of social sciences was gang-rapped by six friends on Saturday night. The girl was an american national but Indian origin as per the news she was staying in TISS hostel only as she was there in India to do a four month course at TISS.
As per the police all the guys belongs to a good family and study in top colleges in Mumbai. What I got from news that this girl did initially not know these boys, while she was invited on a drink party in a bar at Devanr, Chembur by one her female friend, who is also from US. After party her female friend actually left for her place but she went along with these guys to Marol as she wanted to meet some of her friend in Andheri and as per her she was taken to some house in Marol and she was gang raped during night by these guys I feel you all must have read this news but here I have few questions
1. I am not sure after so much of drinks why this girl wanted to go Andheri with unknown guys, while her female friend has actually left after the party?
2. She says that she realized in the morning that she has been raped whole night, which means she was not in sense during night and was absolutely drunk. If that was her condition why her female friend left her with these guys allowed her to go to Andheri in such a condition?
3. As per the guys the girl also wanted to have sex and co-operated, while later she filed complaint for the rape.
4. In this situation it is difficult to entirely blame these guys only; who may lost their entire carrier if they are punished for the rape. The bigger question is how a girl can drink with unknown people in such a way that she goes out of her senses and then how she can agree to go with these guys to such a far place?
Even some time back also I heard the news that a foreign national girl was gang rapped. Every other day we find the news of rape. This is the time when society should find the root cause of this issue other we may keep punishing of so many people for this crime and there of will be many victims of this crime. What I feel there are two ways we can make the changes in our society
Either we go back in old days, when a girl has number restriction. She used to wear the cloths to cover entire body. She was not supposed to make friend with boys. She was not allowed to be out of home alone after evening hour etc etc. She had to leave her study in the early age and she used to get married in the early age.
OR
We get advanced like society in western country. In such case prostitution should be legally allowed in the country under certain rules and regulation. So that people get place to release the pent up energy.
Even what I observe in Mumbai after getting this dance bar banned such cases have increased. I don’t know what we are trying to stop and what kind of culture we are trying to maintain. If we are trying to ban prostitution in the country, please answer ourselves have we been successful in stopping that in so many years. If some parents get worried as their son may also go for a prostitute, if this get legally allowed in the country. I say here bigger worry should be what if he gets filed for some rape case and becomes a criminal.

By Deepak Thaper
Deepak.thaper@gmail.com

Saturday, March 21, 2009

Hidden cameras show enormous on the job sex by BPO gals and guys at night



Indian BPO corporations have started monitoring their employee activities at night. The call center guys and gals at night are having sex with each other and these are getting into secretly placed video cameras watching them. The sex epidemic in India especially among call center gals and guys is rising at astronomical heights.
According to some think tanks, these guys and gals in early twenties get the sexual freedom at night working together. The sex activities take place during and after work hours in different places.
Many companies take disciplinary actions. Mostly they fire those employees who engage in sex at work. But the number of employees engaged in lesbian and straight sex has skyrocketed recently.


Source - Indiadaily.com