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Thursday, July 30, 2009

C-grade movie actresses now on small screen


Now you can watch C-grade C grade movie’s sultry actress showing on your home screen.
Now Negar Khan had joined as one of the contestant on new reality show Iss Jungle Se Mujhe Bachao.
Some days back Shweta Tiwari and other girl were providing bathing scene on your screen and now recently Negar Khan took bath in bikini and started exposing scenes which used to be available on 3rd grade cinema.

It’s very good news for all as all such stuff now easily available for our kids at home only. Soon we should be able to watch XX and XXX scenes on our screen along with our family.





Many such snaps are available on internet of her, just to respect viewer I have edited to hide some area in the picture
A pornographic action by her

Saturday, July 18, 2009

Sach ka samana – A New concept of reality TV show


Recently I watched few episodes of new TV show Sach ka samana. It looks very new reality TV show concept in India. Here participant has to give true answer of every question, which is very personal. To know truthfulness of the answer polygraph machine is used. Here I am not going to discuss detail and rule of this show as I assume most of us have watched its episode. No doubt concept is new and good but here I have some confusion. I watched very first episode of this show where a married female was participant I really don’t remember her name but what I can collect she was around few years married with two kids having complete family life. I was observing the question she was being asked and very surprised as she was accepting the painful truth for most of the question. She had almost won Rs 5 lacs after giving around 11 truths, she was continuing and questions were getting more & more personal. But I realized most of the questions were based on personal feeling and thinking, which I felt is not fair. Like female was asked question like

* Do you feel that someone else looks better than your husband?

* Do you feel your mother loves your brother more than you?

* Did you ever felt to kill your husband?

If you ask me, I feel that they are just pathetic questions and originally have no specific or correct answer. As feeling or thinking is unintentional process in human brain and most of the time is not logical, even has no value/effect. If you try to compare following two questions you might understand what I am trying to say.

1. If you ask a person Other than your wife did you ever had sex with some girl?

2. Other than your wife did you ever feel to have sex with some girl?

If you see here first question is very much relevant and person answering will be very much clear as what is the truth, while second question is very confusing for any one as no-one even remembers that what he felt just 5 minutes before and if he felt something as such what was the intensity of such feeling, if intensity is very low than really such feeling doesn’t have any value and impact on individual’s character, moral or personality. What I understand from this show, they ask most of the time question based on feeling or thinking and try to confuse the person as no body can actually proof what he felt or not. I was shocked when this female was asked the question as other than your husband did you felt about other man, first it needs to be clearly defined if someone felt then actually on what extends. Even it is possible with most of us when we watch some beautiful actress in movie doing some bold scene and for a second it comes in mind WOW, a feeling for moment and it goes, then if it has to be blamed as I felt for that girl, I don’t think this is fare at all.

If this show really has to succeed, I think they will have to go towards event based questions, which have clear answers and what people actually want to know.

Source - deepak.thaper@gmail.com

Monday, June 15, 2009

A successfull bollywood actor rapped his maid

Yesterday I got the news from various TV news channel that Shiny Ahuja, who is a very successfull bollywood acter was arrested by Mumbai police in case of raping his maid. Shiny Ahuja is married to a beautiful wife and has a daughter as well. When I got the news I couldn't believe it and thought it may be some publicity stunt or may be false balme by her maid. But today news came as Shiny has accepted his crime.
Shiny with wife Anu

The maid was working at shiny place for last 1 and 1/2 month and that day shiny's wife and daughter were out of town and he was alone at home with maid, when forcefully he had sex with her maid.
This looks really pathetic. How a person on such a successful position and having great family life can take such steps, which eventually can his spoil his whole carrier, family life and can put his self and his family in such a shapefull and ambarrising position.
I think, in the industry he working and in the city he is leaving in there are many girls, who can wishfully build a sexual relationship with him just for fun & satisfaction and even not that he can also spend few thousands rupees and can buy sex and beauty of his own choice to fullfill his physical need. Then why such a foolish step.
I will try to keep exploring answer of this question and will keep updating on the same

Sunday, April 19, 2009

An american girl was gang rapped by six boys

The news came on 17th Apr 2009 that a 23-year old student of Tata Institute of social sciences was gang-rapped by six friends on Saturday night. The girl was an american national but Indian origin as per the news she was staying in TISS hostel only as she was there in India to do a four month course at TISS.
As per the police all the guys belongs to a good family and study in top colleges in Mumbai. What I got from news that this girl did initially not know these boys, while she was invited on a drink party in a bar at Devanr, Chembur by one her female friend, who is also from US. After party her female friend actually left for her place but she went along with these guys to Marol as she wanted to meet some of her friend in Andheri and as per her she was taken to some house in Marol and she was gang raped during night by these guys I feel you all must have read this news but here I have few questions
1. I am not sure after so much of drinks why this girl wanted to go Andheri with unknown guys, while her female friend has actually left after the party?
2. She says that she realized in the morning that she has been raped whole night, which means she was not in sense during night and was absolutely drunk. If that was her condition why her female friend left her with these guys allowed her to go to Andheri in such a condition?
3. As per the guys the girl also wanted to have sex and co-operated, while later she filed complaint for the rape.
4. In this situation it is difficult to entirely blame these guys only; who may lost their entire carrier if they are punished for the rape. The bigger question is how a girl can drink with unknown people in such a way that she goes out of her senses and then how she can agree to go with these guys to such a far place?
Even some time back also I heard the news that a foreign national girl was gang rapped. Every other day we find the news of rape. This is the time when society should find the root cause of this issue other we may keep punishing of so many people for this crime and there of will be many victims of this crime. What I feel there are two ways we can make the changes in our society
Either we go back in old days, when a girl has number restriction. She used to wear the cloths to cover entire body. She was not supposed to make friend with boys. She was not allowed to be out of home alone after evening hour etc etc. She had to leave her study in the early age and she used to get married in the early age.
OR
We get advanced like society in western country. In such case prostitution should be legally allowed in the country under certain rules and regulation. So that people get place to release the pent up energy.
Even what I observe in Mumbai after getting this dance bar banned such cases have increased. I don’t know what we are trying to stop and what kind of culture we are trying to maintain. If we are trying to ban prostitution in the country, please answer ourselves have we been successful in stopping that in so many years. If some parents get worried as their son may also go for a prostitute, if this get legally allowed in the country. I say here bigger worry should be what if he gets filed for some rape case and becomes a criminal.

By Deepak Thaper
Deepak.thaper@gmail.com

Saturday, March 21, 2009

Hidden cameras show enormous on the job sex by BPO gals and guys at night



Indian BPO corporations have started monitoring their employee activities at night. The call center guys and gals at night are having sex with each other and these are getting into secretly placed video cameras watching them. The sex epidemic in India especially among call center gals and guys is rising at astronomical heights.
According to some think tanks, these guys and gals in early twenties get the sexual freedom at night working together. The sex activities take place during and after work hours in different places.
Many companies take disciplinary actions. Mostly they fire those employees who engage in sex at work. But the number of employees engaged in lesbian and straight sex has skyrocketed recently.


Source - Indiadaily.com

Sunday, April 13, 2008

Sex life in Indian college campus

A new survey finds youngsters ignorant about protection, but brazen about being permissive
MUMBAI: “I used to be invited to parties, but once people realised I had an inhibition about having sex, I stopped receiving invitations,” says Ritika Kapoor, a BCom student in Mumbai, citing an example of the pressure on students to be permissive.
A new survey conducted by the International Institute for Population Sciences (IIPS), a UN-based body, confirms that youngsters in India are getting more sexually active. “The reason why most kids had sex was peer pressure. In the case of girls, the commonest reason was pressure from the partner. Many were led to believe that refusing to have sex would ruin the relationship. Pleasure or experimentation was nowhere near the top of the list of reasons,” said Sanjay Mohanty, a co-ordinator of the survey which was completed late last year. The research will soon be presented to the government which is formulating a national youth policy.
Annisha Tandon, a 17-year-old student of a suburban Mumbai college, has no qualms over admitting she indulges in sex because she wants to be ‘cool’. “Every weekend my group heads to my friend’s farmhouse at Alibaug. It’s not mandatory to have sex, but we all do it.”
Nitin Khataria, a BMS student at a South Mumbai college, says that a relationship for him begins with sex. “I have dated girls but neither of us ever insists on knowing each other. It is about spending a good time together.”
In an earlier study by the Tata Institute of Social Sciences in Mumbai, more than a third of the respondents reported having sexual intercourse before the age of 18. Now the activity has increased with students having more money to spend as well as opportunity

Hotels have come up around colleges to cater to this young crowd, some offering rooms on an hourly basis, or chadarbadli as they call it, for Rs200-500. A manager at a hotel in Juhu says, “We allow students to use the rooms on an hourly basis. It helps when the business is low.”
“You can also ask the hotel staff for condoms if you forget to carry protection,” says Rina Madan, an 18-year-old. Those who can’t afford hotels go to coffee shops where the staff provides the couple with curtains and dustbins for an extra cost. A popular chain of coffee shops in Mumbai is known to provide students with condoms too on request.
There are other options. A parking lot at a restaurant in Juhu is a popular hub for student sex. Ripal Shah, a 17-year-old commerce student, says, “The parking cost is Rs30. Tip an extra Rs30 to the man who parks your car, and you get to enjoy with your partner at the parking lot itself.”
On week-ends, the action moves to beaches or resorts in Madh, Alibaug and Aksa. “Small hotels on beaches charge only Rs60 for an hour. We spend Rs200 driving to and fro, so it is reasonable,” says Manish Khanna, who drives from Versova to Madh almost every weekend.
Discotheques too have started catering to students. A suburban disc that runs in a hotel offers students the option of staying back in the hotel. “When the manager got to know we were regulars, he asked us for the disco-stamp and offered us a discount on the accommodation,” says Mitesh Kumar, a BMM student.
But even as more youngsters indulge in casual sex, experts say sex education has not kept up with the sexual activity, leading to risky behaviour.
Safety ignoredThe IIPS study across six states, which questioned youngsters in the 15-24 age group, had some startling findings. Less than half of the youth interviewed knew that the first intercourse could make a woman pregnant. Only about a third of the young women had the correct information about condoms, and even fewer were well-informed about oral pills and IUDs. Most of them had no idea about spacing methods.
“Most youngsters have only a superficial knowledge about sex, protection or AIDS. In several cases, youngsters claim to have heard of contraceptives, but when you ask them for specifics they are at a loss. The situation regarding abortion is the same,” says Mohanty.
Doctors say sexually transmitted diseases too are on the rise because of unprotected sex, especially amongst youngsters, many of whom think taking the morning-after pill will do.
“Guys always talk of safe sex, but when they get down to the act, they don’t consider wearing condoms. This is scary, but I always carry pills to be on the safe side,” says Annisha.

Saturday, July 14, 2007

Critical dating mistakes women make… or that unintentional drama of errors.



You may think you are doing fine on a date but encounter an unexpected setback…Here are eight of the most common mistakes women make…




Over-aggression - If you’re a real go-getter at work, you’re most likely using the same tactics that worked in your professional life. This doesn’t mean you should pretend to Not have those characteristics.
Be proud of them…they played a big part in shaping you into the strong woman that you are. But let it take a backseat when you enter the realm of relationships.



‘Cinderella’ complex - sometimes, it feels like we’ve found our soul mate after a couple of exciting dates. It isn’t necessary to define the parameters of a relationship (the “Are we or aren’t we a couple?” question) so soon.Enjoy each other’s company learn all you can about him. If the feeling is mutual, there’ll be no question of a committed relationship happening later on down the road. Wait until those initial euphoric feelings have lessened before you start picking out rings.


Commitment-phobia - It may be that things are progressing too quickly in the relationship, and you’re a little freaked out. Or perhaps you can’t shake off the nagging suspicion that there’s a better deal out there somewhere.
What ever the reason, ask yourself why you’re in serious relationship when you are so obviously not ready. Is it pressure from family and friend? Are you afraid of being hurt? Getting to the underlying cause of the problem makes it easier to solve it.


Hitting sack immediately – If you are looking for a serious relationship… Give it sometime before you slip between the sheets. Having sex with someone right off the bat, emphasizes the physical attraction and down place the emotional aspects.

Remember. Great sex doesn’t equal a great relationship and you can’t make someone love you by being easy.



Just move on – May be there’s someone you are dying to date. That he has demonstrated that he doesn’t feel the same way about you, or he just isn’t responsive advances. Muscling your way into his life isn’t going to help you win him over. Don’t while away the hours… hoping he will come around.


Opposite goals in life – Opposite may attract… that’s fine when it comes to trivial issues. But is important you find out your mate’s biggest goal and dreams and measure them against yours. In the early stages of a relationship, you are infatuated and easily overlook crucial issues.
You believe love can overcome anything. But you don’t want to find yourself in a deep and committed relationship and suddenly realized that neither of you is willing to change your goals to match the others.



Seeking mister perfect - Never have high standard when it comes to choosing your man. Have a clear idea of what you want in a mate… but be flexible. If you can’t seen to find the right guy, you may be to particular.Does he really have to be a six footer with black hair and blue eyes? Maintain your standard but try to keep it realistic.



Settling for less – On the other hand don’t be tempted to settle into a less-than-ideal relationship simply for the security it efforts. You can really sell yourself short by adapting the ‘at least, I’m not single’ attitude. You are only cheating yourself out of a successful relationship.